It’s almost impossible to make an omelette without breaking a few eggs and if you are on the lead up to leaving, you will almost certainly be feeling palpable trepidation for what lies ahead.
If you believe you have done all you can to make things work and if you believe that you will be healthier, happier, calmer, safer or more, the other side of your relationship, then you have to trust your instinct and slowly and steadily, put one foot in front of the other and make it so.
The trouble is with trouble, is nobody wants it. If you get the ball rolling, you can put money on the fact that some will come a’calling.
Be strong. Think about how things are right now. Think about how your boundaries have been pushed. Think about waking up someday soon without the weight of angst bearing down on you. Think about the fact that it will end. Think about yourself. Think about your life.
Think about smiling again sometime soon. Think about cracking the first egg.