Once you are the other side of your divorce, celebrate life by planting a tree to signify the emergence of the new you.
If not on land controllable by you, consider using a non-profit organisation like The Word Forest Organisation, who for a very small fee will plant food bearing trees in African communities.
A fledgling new whip of a tree is the perfect signifier of what you now are.
Nowhere near its full potential and with a propensity to move with the seasons and occasionally, bend with the wind.
It’s hard to imagine that something so tender and vulnerable could blossom into a steadfast creation of majesty and strength but it will and you will too.