If you had the misfortune of being married to a horrid spouse who left you for another lover, it would be all too easy to divert a fair proportion of your anger towards them, in the direction of your replacement.
The fact is, your ex’s new partner may not be in full possession of the unpleasant facts about their new squeeze and to be honest, being cross at the new person is a futile pastime. You’re likely to achieve nothing but a belly ache by confronting them directly and if they do purport to know all there is to know about your ex, good luck to them – they are likely to need it!
One last useful point in respect of the person now filling your shoes is, don’t start comparing yourself against them. Their physical attributes may be similar or vastly different, you are never going to be able to get into your ex’s head to work out why they made the choice they did.
You might as well try to fathom out whether the moon is filled with cream cheese; you’ll have a better chance of getting that right.