If the Christmas period has given you time for reflective thought on your relationship and brought you to a decision point where you are ready to end it, my heartfelt loving thoughts are with you.
There is never an easy time to reach that punctuation mark and Christmas and the New Year is a very common time for it to happen, although, I doubt you’ll find any comfort in the thought that you’re heart is breaking along with many others.
I think the reason we find it easier to make definitive decisions about our future is because all of our senses and emotions are heightened, the good and the bad and it’s often clear to know what we don’t want rather than what we do want.
With a few days to go until the end of the year, your reflective moments will probably turn into concrete plans sometime soon. If you decide to proceed with a separation and divorce, you will unquestionably find comfort and an organisational resource in ‘Diary for Divorce: for Women and Men’, available on Amazon.
It will allow you to pour your heart out, keep all your important information in one place as well as venting your frustrations and planning for a brighter future.
Good luck with all you decide to do; the sun will shine again.