‘A divorce is like a death without a funeral’, so a learned soul once said; how true that statement is.
Living with the ghost of your ex in the early days can be extremely taxing, especially when they’re making more ‘noise’ following their departure, than they ever did whilst in your relationship!
If their audible vitriol is loud, take solace in the fact that it will eventually fade and go. However, when silence replaces it, that can be a double-edged sword, bringing a welcome end to their wittering but also a void where the noise once was.
Have a funeral for your relationship’s end. Take flowers to a water’s edge and throw in the petals as you close the door on your sadness and mark the event.
Everything goes back to the earth, including the energy from lost love.